Tuesday, January 17, 2012

My experiences with Art of Living YesPlus

Last weekend (Dec 17th 2011) I attended the course YesPlus guided by Art of Living teachers " the wonderful Annalies" and " the spirited Shyam". It was a great experience for me personally after a long time, I got involved with a big group and shared joy, love, peace and happiness with everyone. The moment, I entered the room, I left my "ego" near the door steps and entered with complete openness. Occasionally while the course was in progress, the "ego" some  how sneaked into the room and tried to make me who I am. But, I guess, with the commitment I had towards the program and my determination towards being open, helped me to squeeze the "ego" and throw it out again.

Its always amazing to me, how people from different age groups, cultures, ethnic groups etc. were able to come together and be so friendly and have fun together. Almost all of them left their ego's and mingled very well with the group with no barriers in their minds or body. There was a little hesitation initially, but Annalies and Shyam really helped to take away those hesitations and made feel like we belong to each other. The whole process in the span of 4 days was very influencing.

I am an introvert by nature (atleast that's what I think) and I was amazed to know that, I am actually an extrovert. Of course, I have observed it in two different phases of my life time. "at work" and "outside of work". When I am at work, I am an extrovert and outside of work, I become introvert. That could be a big reason why I have lot of colleagues and very limited friends. The beleif that I had about me being introvert actually made me not able to make more friends which is sad.

While I am talking about this experience, it would be incomplete, if I don't talk about my personal team ("The Warriors"). Nikki, Rashmi and Ambika along with me were always together and encouraged each other in every aspect of the program. They are the best team you can ever get (this includes my whole 14 yrs of professional experience). Each and everyone has their own skills, capabilities and desire to get the best experience and gave 100%. As a team, we worked together and were together all around and helped each other to have the best fun in our lifetimes. I sincerely wish, I get a chance to team up with them again and work in the same way.

If there is one thing, that I have learned and understood in this program, of course there are many, but one thing that stands out is "to accept a person who the person is (AS-IS) with no added masala (judgement) to it". When I look into someone's eyes, which I don;t normally do, I feel so relaxed, energized and get the feeling that, they really belong to me.

Another thing which I also shared with my group is that, I did this course 10 yrs back at Bangalore Ashram and due to personal and professional commitments, I lost touch with it and didn't practice it. Now, after 10 yrs, what I gained is "Anxiety, Frustration, Panic, Anger, Stress, Disappointment etc etc" and realized, if I could have continuted my practice and did advanced courses, I wouldn't be in this position with all these psycological challenges. On the other hand, the whole practice is not asking me to spend hours, instead just few minites (around half hour) only and I didnot allot time for this important activity that rezunivates my mind and body. I am NOT regretting for what happened so far, but I am glad that, atleast now, I have realized the importance of it and hoping that, I could keep up with the practice and realize the benefits it provides.

"Isn't it good to have a calm, anger free, no frustration, peaceful and joyful mind"

After thinking for a while, here are my commitments....
1. Practice for the next 40 days without missing even a day. If I miss, I will start my count again from day 1
2. Say "Ram-Ram" (bye-bye) to meat based diet, which includes Chicken :(
3. Make atleast 1 new friend every week
4. Help people who are really in need and make them smile
5. Once a week, attend the long practice

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